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They use the moral principles of others e. Lisa Lipshires Lipshires They know how to make themselves into victims to gain sympathy e. For example, when Joe was “selling” Mary on the justification for shoving his agenda down everyone’s throat he was also sending out subtle invitations for her to feel ashamed shaming her for not being as “concerned” a parent as he was as well as making her feel guilty guilt-tripping her for not being as conscientious as he was pretending to be.
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But let there be no mistake, these outbursts favoring manipulation in some “shaky” evangelical churches are unfortunately not characteristic of Protestantism, or even religion. Peace Edited 1 time s. The hidden suffering of the psychopath. A phone can be a tool to create distance, to avoid confrontation, but except for if it is used to harass with repeated calls, it is not very manipulative.
Also, a manipulator likes to be able to see the expressions and to use facial expressions to create a sense of threat while delivering words that can not be reported as a threat, for example. They often wait until the last minute to ask, order or have others do something.
Here’s a link where it talks about the book but the site is in french language only. I am sure there is some awkwardness in the google translation but I would not go out of my way to lend much credence to this writer. Female perpetration of child sexual abuse: Psychiatric labeling in cross-cultural perspective. Quote These groups tend manpulateurs develop systems to train their leaders who are akin to some brainwashing.
The gender paradigm in domestic violence research and theory: They change their opinions, behaviours, or feelings depending on the person or situation.
They do not take into account the rights, needs and desires of others.
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xont If the book has been written in other language, I strongly recommend it to everyone. They use flattery to seduce us, give gifts or suddenly start waiting on us hand and foot. They often respond vaguely. Quote The manner of presenting information is never neutral, it can easily exaggerate certain points or minimize others, it can also be generalized.
Quote dsm Some of this does not make sense.
They make false statements to discover the truth, twist and interpret facts to suit themselves. An overview of the problem. They have their messages communicated by other people or via intermediaries manupulateurs instead of face-to-face, written notes.
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They unload their responsibilities onto others or dismiss their own responsibilities. Sorry, only registered users may post in this forum. Manipulators often try to get very specific information from people they intend to manipulate. Donald G Dutton Dutton Are you in some way associated with a group discussed on this message board? They make us do things that we would probably not have done of our own free will. It has keys how to deal with these kind of people.
Bobbie Rosencrans Rosencrans They make others believe that they must be perfect, never change their minds, always know everything, and immediately respond to requests and questions.
This forum powered by Phorum. Unskilled and unaware of it: Number 6, about logic, does not make sense to me. Quote dsm And the last one, that confuses me. Thirty years of denying the evidence on gender symmetry in partner violence: Archaeologist has been banned from this message board. To whom it may concern: They ignore requests even if they claim to be taking care of them.
The 30 characteristics of the manipulator
Quote dsm Number 6, about logic, does not make sense to me. Note that a person is considered a manipulator if there is at least 14 characteristics noted on the said person. There is nothing wrong with giving vague answers to questions unless the questioner has a right or a need for specific information. They are constantly the focus of conversation among people who know them, even padmi they are not present.
They cite all kinds of logical reasons to disguise their requests. Murray A Straus Straus Quote archaeologist one doesn’t need 14 of those characteristics either to be a manipulator, they noud use just 1.
Quote Rationalization janipulateurs A rationalization is the excuse an aggressor tries to offer for engaging in an inappropriate or harmful behavior. Quote dsm To use the phone or written message instead of face-to-face is not manipulative.